Let’s be honest – “morning routines” were one of those things I thought were total hogwash.
A mystical creation of work-at-home moms who wanted to seem awesome on social media.
A farse.
Nobody really does this. Nobody actually does the exact same things every morning that include cleaning. Nobody schedules their day like this.
Well…
I was wrong.
I don’t think you must have a morning routine in order to be a professional mother. (And I do believe that being a stay-at-home mom is, in fact, a profession and should be treated as such.) But I do think they can form naturally and be super helpful.
Before moving to our new home, I had neither a night nor morning routine. I was basically flying by the seat of my mom pants, and I didn’t know I had a problem. Our new house is larger and requires more “housekeeping” to stay up to my standards, and my current baby is getting big and needing more specific schedules and attention, and my husband has gone back to full-time teaching at a permanent position, so my day has gotten fuller. In a wonderful way, but fuller.
In order to fit everything in and still sleep a relatively healthy amount (I am not about motherhood masochism) I decided to do a few tasks before bed and in the morning before the kids get up, largely tasks I never did daily before. And thus, a routine was born!
Some nights/mornings they don’t get done. I’m trying not to beat myself up about it when that happens, when sometimes I choose extra sleep or hanging out with my hubby or helping do some school work instead of tidying up my house. It depends on the day’s demands. But it’s nice to have slots to fit these activities into instead of constantly regretting that they’re falling through the cracks. It’s good to know that these cleaning activities will get done almost daily, that my house most mornings will be clean and quiet, that if people drop by my home will be clean and inviting. That I will be able to find everything I need if I need to rush out the door in the morning.
Stay tuned for full posts about my morning routine and night time routine!